Because Smart People Can't Be Wrong

Last fall I posted about how many people erroneously spell dilemma as dilemna.  That post continues to get comments and I always get a kick out of the comments.

Apparently, many people who consider themselves quite intelligent have been spelling the word wrong.  I had been spelling it wrong all of my life, too, as had my husband.  Both of us were surprised since we considered ourselves good spellers.  Then we learned the right spelling and moved on.

Not so for many folks out there in cyberspace.

I am amazed at how many people seem to have this train of thought:

“I’m very smart and I was taught that it had an N.  Therefore, all of the dictionaries are wrong and I’m still right.”

Um….

What?

Take this bit, for instance, from a reader who considers herself “an excellent speller”:

I would like to point out that language is an ever growing and changing discipline. By the mere fact that there are so many people spelling this word this way it has become an alternate spelling (even if the folks at Merriam Webster don’t yet agree).

She goes on…

Dictionaries are a resource for language not the owners of it. The speakers and writers of a language are the ones that make the rules and drive change. … They are the record keepers of our language, they can exert no power over how we speak or write.

Really?  They can exert no power over how we speak or write?  Well no, they can’t, but they can say whether it’s WRONG or not.

Another reader who considers herself too smart to have ever been wrong about anything wrote:

Ellie is correct~~language is an ever changing discipline. Think about Old English and how much has changed since then. Once a common spelling (or mispelling) of a word is considered the norm, it is often accepted as an alternative spelling, or replaces the original version altogether. I, too, was taught to spell it dilemna. We weren’t all taught wrong! We’re just falling victim to a younger society whose parents/teachers didn’t bother to correct their mispellings & now that they’re the decision makers, they find it easier to go with the accepted mispellings than to admit they’re altering the language even further.

Oh.  Of course, all the rest of YOU were taught wrong, and we had it right.  Then all those dopes who didn’t spell it right accidentally corrupted every single dictionary in the world.  Yeah, that’s what happened.

(Incidentally, Sweetie, you also spelled “misspell” wrong.)

Good grief.  We all learned wrong.  I’m over it!  Can’t we all accept it and move on?

Spell it with me: DILEMMA.

See, not even a bolt of lightning.

Why We Need Better Anti-Bullying Legislation

This is just heartbreaking.  This 15-year-old girl from Ireland hung herself in January after 3 months of intense bullying that apparently everybody knew about and was repeatedly reported.  She is the second child in Massachusettes to kill herself because of bullying just this year, just in that state.

People who say that enduring this sort of hell prepares children for real life must expect their children to end up in prison.  That’s not what “real life” is like for adults anywhere else in this country, yet we allow it to happen to innocent children.

What a terrible tragedy.