I’m just popping in for a long-overdue post and update. I always say I’m going to get back to regular blogging but I’m really going to start making it a priority soon. I miss this. 🙂
Things are as busy as usual here. As an update on each of the members of our family…
Toria (18 now) is in North Carolina with my cousin Eddie and his wonderful family for the week, and visiting their home in Ohio as well. They’ve rented a house in Nag’s Head on the coast and she’s hanging with her beloved second cousins and they’re wonderfully fun household.
She is taking a gap year this year, having officially graduated homeschool this spring. She’ll be spending this year focusing on travel, volunteer work and finalizing her thoughts on which passion to follow first in terms of college and career. She has already traveled to visit friends in Oregon this spring, then Ohio, and now North Carolina and Ohio. We’ll be going to see Tiffany in Nebraska for a while after we come back from getting her, and our family friend Val (whom I’ve known since high school and is like family to me and to the kids) is planning to take her to Europe sometime this year.
She is also starting up her own little shop, selling whimsical glass jewelry. Once she has it established, I’ll post a link!
Rhia (16 now) will be officially starting her new job next month, taking over Toria’s old gig since Toria aged out (it’s only for teens under 18). It’s a fantastic job with good pay and pretty cool experiences. She did all the training for it this spring and got her feet wet, but they have to wait until the new fiscal year starts in August to jump back in. That’s about all I can say in a public forum.🙂
She just celebrated her 11 month anniversary with her boyfriend, Tyler. He is such a great guy and we all really adore him. She’s made some new friends that she really enjoys, and has been having a lot of fun playing with fashion and hair choices. Her hair is currently green and yellow ombre with a partly shaved side. She is one of the only people I’ve ever known who can look good with something like that!
She’s doing the hair and makeup for the Wilder Pageant, but otherwise just enjoying the summer off. She has been going to quite a few cool concerts with Ty, his sister and friends, and she’ll be going to the Warped Tour soon.
Jack (13) is in the Wilder Pageant again this summer. I forget how many years he’s been in it now. Maybe six? He’s suddenly growing like a weed, and is now quite a bit taller than I am (though that’s not hard as I’m only 4’11”!). His voice is now deep enough that whenever I’m on the phone with Tiffany she says, “That can’t be Jack talking!”. :) His blond hair has gone quite curly from the summer humidity and it’s so thick and full that I think it adds another few inches.
He’s been getting into Manga books and fell in love with a series I brought home from a thrift store yesterday. He is also quite a fan of Nerf guns and we’ve amassed a massive cache of them from thrift stores since most of the other kids have caught the fever too. I’m not a fan of guns or the mayhem that ensues in their Nerf battles. One such battle accidentally landed Alex in the ER and required an eye patch for a week, so protective eye gear is now a rule in our house. But I also try to bite my tongue and let him do the things that bring him joy.
He’s one of my biggest helpers around the house these days and I don’t know what I’d do without him. He helps a lot with laundry, Fiona, the pets and occasional cooking. He is the one I rely on the most for little odd jobs throughout the day — putting canned goods away in the basement pantry, hanging clothes on the line, grinding a batch of millet or brown rice flour in the Vitamix, setting up Fiona with something fun so I can fix dinner, and so on.
Alex (9) has a temporary best friend next door. Our new neighbor has her nephew with her every summer, and he is Alex’s age and a fabulous fit for him. They play a lot of Minecraft together and we bring him with us when we do some fun things like head to the lake.
We went to Sioux Falls yesterday for much-needed shopping, and we worked a visit to the zoo into it and brought the neighbor boy along. We have memberships to the zoo and children’s museum in Sioux Falls, and try to make time for something fun for the kids every time we head there for the boring necessities like groceries since I stock up on better deals at places like Costco and Aldi once or twice a month to help keep our food budget frugal. It was fun (and noisy) having an extra small Alex-like boy with us all day!
Alex in the Wilder Pageant again, too. I think this is about his 3rd year, but I’m not sure. He has a lot of fun in it and does well. He is still a super active kid. He loves riding his bike and playing outside, and he’s got endless energy. He is slightly less exhausting as he ages, and he is constantly making me smile. He continues to be fascinating with anything scientific, and soaks up scientific information like a sponge. I was trying not to grin last week when he had a new friend in the back yard who was listening rather glassy-eyed as Alex explained in depth how to make a still.
Fiona (4) is in the Wilder Pageant for her second year. She loves it, and looks adorable in her long braids and prairie dress. She is quite the actress already and she’s learned most of the lines for the other actors. She sometimes quotes them to me and then expects me to know how I’m supposed to answer. She particularly likes quoting the little girl in the grasshopper scene (“Mama, mama, I can’t sleep. I keep dreaming about grasshoppers. They’re in the house and in my hair and everywhere!”… Or something like that — she could tell you exactly!). Then I answer with a silly answer that’s not quite what the mama is supposed to say and she grins and corrects me with my proper line.
She is learning to spell and read a few new words, and is impatient to learn to read. I’ve told her that she’ll learn soon. By child #5, I can tell how close she is to having it all click into place, and I have a lot of tools in my tool chest to help that happen soon for her. It’s a goal for me to do something fun in reading readiness every day this summer, and then step it up a bit in the fall if she wants. Of course, we read together every night and that’s probably the single best way to get children ready to read.
She still loves doing art, too, and it’s a huge part of her day. I love her drawings and paintings. Toria has been a big influence for her there. That really helps her writing, too, since it gives her the fine motor control to make it easy.
Daryl is in the Wilder Pageant for his 11th (?) year, playing Mr. Kennedy this year. He has also been busy with loads of other things, most of them volunteer-based. And he was in a movie this week! He got to be an extra for the movie “Hap and Ashley” that’s filming about an hour away. He helped them as a reader when they were casting in another city a few months ago. He even got a line! He got to be the guy at the pot luck who shouts out, “Someone call Hank! We’re gonna need an ambulance.” 🙂
He’s also been doing quite a lot of foraging with the kids. He and the kids (mostly Toria) gathered over 60 pounds of wild asparagus this spring that’s in our freezer for the winter now. He’s also gathered black raspberries (several gallons), mulberries and now bush cherries. We transplanted a few black raspberry bushes from the wild a few years ago and they happily took over a section of our back yard, so it’s questionable if that counts as foraging or not. I’m glad we did, as the county mowed down all the raspberry plants and cut down the mulberry trees last summer. I wish there was less focus on making nature look tidy and empty. I know we were hardly the only family who gathered those delicious fruits every summer.
I have been extremely busy, even compared to my normal level of mayhem. Examiner notified all of its writers on July 1st that it would be taking down the website around July 10th, and I had to move thousands of articles to a safe place to keep them. I am starting several new websites where I’m reposting those articles. It will be better for my readers, since they won’t have to put up with those annoying pop-up ads and sometimes-horrifying “trending stories” that adorned the sidelines. It’s not so good for us, though, as I’m out that paycheck! I’m putting Amazon affiliate links on the sites and asking people who wish to support us to click through for any shopping they wish to do, hoping that helps a bit in making up for that loss of income. I am choosing to look at it as a blessing, since it will give me that push off the proverbial cliff in to new directions and new beginnings, like it or not!
Our house is currently brimming with kittens and cats, and I’m working to get that down to a calm roar. I rescued a beautiful feral female last winter and it turned out she was pregnant, so I had to find homes for her 4 kittens (3 down, one to go). Then another feral cat moved her kittens into our garage. The mama was very wild and the kittens were already becoming as wild as mama, and I knew that they could never be adopted if I couldn’t tame them soon. They were too young to be weaned though, so I tried a desperate experiment and caught one and brought him up to our feral (now tame) rescue mama inside. She sniffed him, licked him and proceeded to nurse him, and I caught the other babies and she adopted them immediately as her own.
Now they are old enough to be weaned and move on to new homes. They have become friendly, social, loving and litter trained. My neighbor has agreed to take one (a black kitten she’s named Zeus) but there are three left to place. In the meantime, our old cats are doing a fairly good job of being overrun by all of these manic kittens!
We managed to catch that feral mama, brought her in to the local vet to be spayed (courtesy of a wonderful county rescue organization) and released her again. She has adopted me as the only human she will let pet her, and she is slowly becoming trusting and very loving.
In addition, we’re having a ton of much-needed renovations done to the house over the next month, and it will require pretty much emptying our entire downstairs and work done on all four floors (main, upstairs, basement and attic!). I am completely overwhelmed by all that has to be done, but it’s another thing that will ultimately be a huge blessing when it’s done.
That’s just a fraction of what’s been going on here! I will try to start popping in more regularly so I don’t have to do massive updates like this every time. Hope your summer is going well!